Fake it till you make it. Nay - fake it till you become it. You can trick your brain in to reshaping who you are. Stand with confidence. Sit with confidence. Project confidence. Studies show that projecting confidence can boost your testosterone.
It's darker than it looks. This photo was taken with an extended exposure just after sundown. The shadows on the forest floor are cast by the moon, and the orange glow is remnance of a distant sunset. I couldn't capture the location on google maps, but here's a screen shot (Indiana/Kentucky Border). Anyway - beautiful evening